There is nothing more heartbreaking than to find out that your mate is cheating. The question here is, "If you confirm your mate is being disloyal what are you going to do?"
Does it raise a red flag when they
won't let you have the code to their phone? Here you are snooping and trying to
find out why your mate won't give you the code. All sorts of things start
running through your mind. You begin to make all sort of assumptions. Finally
you ask, MeetMe.com
Reviews "Why do you have a code on your phone that I am not
privy to have?" They just avoid answering you or they tell you it's for
their privacy.
You fire back with, "I don't
have a code on my phone because I have nothing to hide." They just look at
you and say, "That's your preference not mine." Now the suspicion
begin to get the best of you. You begin to start reading into this secret code
on the phone and it is controlling your thoughts. You begin to try to look over
their shoulder when they are inputting the code, you sneak the phone and try to
jail break. You try all dates, MeetMe ages just
anything that could possibly be the code.
Finally you open the phone and
break the code. Are you prepared to handle what you may come across? From past
experiences of friends and family they want to know, but they don't know what
to do with the information they stumble across.
Let me share one very disturbing
experience of a friend: She suspected her husband cheating and waited until he
went to sleep to start her quest into the mystery cellphone code. To her
surprise she was able to crack the code and what she found was enough to call
for divorce. She found inappropriate videos of her spouse engaging in various
sexual acts and sending them to several females. She found voice mail messages
that were saved from females wanting to hook up again. She had text message
conversations with his co-workers discussing who was going to get the next
hotel, because they thought they were talking to her husband but actually she
was engaging MeetMe.com in
conversations with the co-workers. She was shocked and not prepared to deal
with the things she found.
Do you stay or do you go? This is
the answer that many are probably saying, " I would be gone in a
heartbeat." This is true for most but you have those that try to make
excuses for why they are still with this person. This is totally dysfunctional
if an individual stayed in a relationship with all this evidence. Would
marriage counseling help? Would divorce be the answer? If you stay what was the
point in using all this energy to find out if they are cheating?
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